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8 Signs You’re in a Healthy and Mature Relationship

Liya Khaimova
5 min readApr 20, 2021

You’ve been dating your partner for a while and you’re wondering, Is this how it’s supposed to be?

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It takes a lot of trial and error to find the right person. And even after a little while, that right person might not be the right person.

It can be evident after a week if the relationship is a healthy and mature one.

Sometimes, it takes months, if not years…

If you’ve been wondering if you’re in a mature and healthy relationship, keep reading.

There are some telltale signs that you and you’re partner are doing just fine.

How to tell you’re in a mature relationship

1. You have arguments — but you resolve them quickly

Everyone argues, and it’s foolish to think otherwise. If you hear someone say healthy and mature relationships are those that never argue run for the hills.

Yes, maybe in the beginning you and your partner hardly ever argue, but as a relationship grows arguments are bound to come up.

According to clinical psychologist Deborah Grody, married couples that never fight often are the ones that get

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Liya Khaimova
Liya Khaimova

Written by Liya Khaimova

I have a muggle day job, write, sing, and do voiceover by night, along with all the other projects happening in my life. Cat mom. She/her.

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